By joining Breaking The Good Girl Cycle - The Curriculum, you're get instant access to 8 Self-Paced Modules which INCLUDES:
đPhase 1: Understanding How You Formed The âGood Girlâ Identity
Here, you will uncover HOW you formed the identity of being the âgood girlâ who always feels like you have to keep it all together, take care of everyone else, and never ever drop the ball. Weâll identify exactly where this stemmed from you, how itâs kept you feeling safe/accepted, and get real about what you are GAINING from continuing this pattern (because yes, thereâs something youâre getting from it which is why itâs so hard to break out of!)
You know how every time you try to set a boundary or stick up for yourself, it leads to you feeling guilty, or second-guessing yourself, or totally backpedaling because you donât want to upset the other person? Yeah, not anymore. Here you become someone who can clock yourself on those old patterns, handle discomfort, and choose yourself amidst it.
â¤ď¸âđŠšPhase 2: Recognizing How Being The âGood Girlâ is Hurting You
Here, we get REAL about how the âgood girlâ identity is negatively impacting you and exactly which areas of your life itâs hurting the most. Youâll take a self-assessment to see how itâs coming up for you personally and why it may be the cause of chronic health issues; how itâs likely contributing to your relationship dissatisfaction and the way itâs stopping you from going after your dreams and being bold (because the fear of failure is too great - âwhat does it mean about me if I fail?â)
I refuse to let you be someone who lives with chronic anxiety, under the mounting pressure of âI need to do more all of the timeâ at the expense of your health, well-being, and personal peace. After this phase, you wonât be able to UN-see how this has impacted your life and youâll know exactly WHAT you need to focus on so that you become the person that others look to and say, âDang, she is so cool and confident! She really KNOWS who she is. I wanna be like HER.â or âYouâre always so relaxed! How do you do it?â
đPhase 3: Getting In Touch With Your Emotions + Processing Them In A Healthy Way (With A Special Guest Expert!)
Here, you will learn how to tune into, feel, and process your emotions in a healthy way so that youâre no longer suppressing them, avoiding, or shaming yourself for the way that you feel. Because real talk? Most âgood girlsâ feel a lot of guilt around feeling big feelings, especially anger. And repressing your anger is KNOWN to cause chronic illness.
Here you become someone who is in TUNE with how you feel and knows how to process your emotions in a healthy way so that youâre not having emotional outbursts that surprise you, or dealing with chronic pain & illness that may very well be related to NOT feeling your emotions. Youâll know how to self-regulate so that you can use your deep-feeling, high sensitivity as a superpower and an ASSET in your life, rather than something you feel ashamed of.
đPhase 4: The Power of Shadow Work + Shame Healing (With A Special Guest Expert!)
Here, youâll identify the parts of yourself that you cast aside and hid in order to fit in, belong, and feeling accepted by others â the shadow parts of you that you deemed as âbadâ and âunlovableâ. Youâll learn how to EMBRACE ALL parts of you â your quirkiness, dorky dance moves, passionate side, intensity, deep feelings.
Ever wonder why some people just EXUDE confidence and authenticity? Why theyâre just magnetic and someone you want to be around? Yeah, itâs because theyâre unapologetically themselves. They arenât trying to impress anyone or hide parts of themselves. They are SO comfortable with all parts of them, the shiny and not-so-shiny which oozes authenticity and attracts others to them. Thatâs exactly what you get when you heal your shame and embrace your shadow parts. You become untouchable.
đPhase 5: Your NEW Identity As The Authentic Woman
Here, we cast the vision for the woman you are BECOMING (really, the woman you are within, at your core, that youâve covered up). What does this version of you look, feel, and act like? How does she handle conflict? What does she think of herself? Weâll get clear on WHO this version of you is! (This will allow you to cast the vision for your future - the North Star that youâre working toward; being your most true, Authentic self).
On the other side of this, youâre so CLEAR in who you truly, authentically are and youâll have a roadmap for exactly how you want to act and move through the world. With this awareness, youâll know where in your life you need to set boundaries and have tough conversations. Youâll feel a peace and congruence because you know WHO you are and where youâre going.
đ§ââď¸Phase 6: Embodiment & BEING The Authentic Woman
Here, youâll learn how to tune into the wisdom of your BODY â to feel comfortable in your skin, your essence, your sensuality. To heal any shame youâve felt for who you are and how you feel. Youâll learn how to be so intune with yourself, which as an HSP is a superpower because you have a tendency to be SO visceral and your body has so much wisdom. Itâs time to EMBRACE IT and USE IT.
I refuse to let you be someone whoâs disconnected from yourself and your body â who doesnât know whatâs going on with yourself or how you ACTUALLY feel. After this phase, youâre so in TUNE with yourself â your unique essence and the wisdom of your body. You know how to use it as a compass that guides you; you know what you need, what you feel, and you unapologetically trust yourself. You honor yourself â your body, your desires, your needs.
đPhase 7: Authentic & Empowered Relationships
Here, we will identify your âgood girlâ triggers and get crystal clear on the ways that youâll be tempted to go back into your old, self-abandoning ways to keep yourself safe. Weâll look at the relationships you have in your life â the people whoâve, up until this point, expected you to act and BE a certain way because itâs benefitted them. Youâll learn how to transcend the discomfort of this experience so that you can stay committed to being the most authentic version of you.
You know how you feel confident and empowered around some people, but like you shrink 5 sizes around others? Yeah, weâre changing that! After this phase, youâll see your challenging relationships as opportunities to step into your NEW identity with even more confidence. Youâll know how to stay committed to yourself, amidst the discomfort, and redefine the dynamics of your relationships.
đłPhase 8: Managing & Neutralizing Your Triggers For A Peaceful Life
Here, youâll learn and master my 6-step process for managing & neutralizing your triggers, so ANY TIME youâre thrown a curveball and feel overwhelmed, tempted to fall back into self-abandonment to keep yourself safe, youâll know how to use these triggers moments as opportunities to get curious, heal, and GROW.
On the other side of this, youâll know exactly how to create space between the triggering experience and YOUR response to it, so that youâre no longer yanked around by other peopleâs actions. You donât allow OTHER PEOPLE to make or break your day so you feel empowered and in control of your experience rather than like the âgood girlâ puppet like you were before.
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