YourĀ result is TheĀ Insecure Self-Doubter
The Insecure Self-Doubter:Ā You are likely pretty hard on yourself and tend to be your own biggest critic. You may find yourself replaying a pattern of being bulldozed and walked all over in your relationships. When issues arise in your relationships, you're quick to blame yourself. You have a hard time trusting their inner experience and are likely to gaslight yourself, āWell, itās my fault that I said it this way. Maybe I was in the wrongā¦ā.
Relationship issues this creates: The Insecure Self-Doubter is the most likely one to find themselves in unhealthy relationships. Whether it's with a hot/cold partner, someone whoās blatantly rude, takes advantage of you, or doesn't respect your needs. You don't see your inherent value so you allow other people to treat you poorly because deep-down, you believe thatās what youāre worthy of.
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Reflection Questions š
- Reflect: Who do I think I need to be to be worthy of a healthy, loving relationship?
- Reflect: What did I learn from my caregivers about relationships? What was modeled for me as the type of partner I should have?
- Your opportunity for growth + healthy relationships: lies in you healing and raising your self-worth. When you know your value and what you deserve, you no longer tolerate unhealthy, toxic behavior because your standards are so much higher.
Positives of this trait to strengthen š„
- In touch with what other people need
- Deeply caring and empathetic
- When you know your inherent worth, you will no longer attract unhealthy, unaligned relationships because you know you deserve love and respect.
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